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You've Built Success... But That Big Idea is Still Waiting

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WHAT'S REALLY KEEPING YOU STUCK?

You've overcome every external obstacle. But the internal blocks? Those are different.

 

âś“ Sitting in a board meeting, nodding along, while your mind screams "I don't belong here. They're going to figure out I don't have it all together." The imposter syndrome hits hardest when you're supposed to be the one with all the answers.

âś“ Lying awake at 3 AM with that big idea burning inside you - the business, the impact, the next chapter - but every time you try to move forward, perfectionism paralyzes you. "It's not ready yet. I need to learn more first. What if I fail?" So the dream stays locked inside.

âś“ Looking in the mirror after another exhausting day of being everything to everyone - the strong leader, the perfect professional, the reliable one - and realizing you've completely lost touch with who you actually are beneath all those masks.

 

What if I told you that feeling lost, blocked, and stuck isn't a sign you're failing - it's a sign you're ready for your breakthrough?

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Things can be 
drastically different. 

 

Imagine finally stepping into that career pivot you've been contemplating for months - not "someday," but with a clear action plan in the next 6 weeks. Waking up energized because you've identified the ONE big idea that's been calling your name - whether it's launching that business, attracting that loving relationship, or becoming the woman you know you're meant to be - and you have a roadmap to make it real. No more going through the motions.

No more letting dreams die inside you. Instead, you're living authentically, pouring your energy into what truly matters, making the impact and experiencing the joy you've always known was possible.

This isn't just wishful thinking. It's exactly what happens when you birth your big idea.

Tongela's coaching opened my mind up to different possibilities.

 

I was just lost. I had pretty much counted out what I could do. I was blocked, going through the motions. But after working with Tongela, it opened my mind up to different possibilities. I tapped back into my heartbeat and passion. I got clarity. I am clear. I have NEVER been clear. My entire thought process has changed... I can do anything that I want to do. I am in a relentless pursuit of the life that I want. Thank you, Tongela, for the work that you did with me; God used you.

MICHELLE FARRIS |  EDUCATION EXECUTIVE

INTRODUCING

Birth a Big Idea

Premium coaching program for successful women done feeling stuck and ready for rapid transformation.

In just 6 weeks, you'll identify your ONE big idea, break through what's been blocking you, and create a clear plan to make it real.

 

No more dreaming about "someday." No more letting fear keep that idea locked inside you. You'll finally have the clarity, confidence, and strategic roadmap to bring your vision to life - whether that's launching your business, pivoting careers, attracting love, or becoming the woman you're meant to be.

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PHASE ONE

Discovery
& Clarity

 

In weeks 1 and 2, we'll identify your ONE big idea and uncover what's been blocking you. Through deep-dive assessments and powerful questioning, we pinpoint the exact "broken line" keeping you stuck - whether it's fear, limiting beliefs, or old stories you keep telling yourself.

PHASE TWO

Forgiveness
& Healing

 

In weeks 3 and 4, you'll release the emotional baggage holding you back. Using Selah breathwork and transformational coaching, you'll heal past wounds, practice self-forgiveness, and create space for your big idea to grow. This is where you receive your personalized BABI Roadmap Action Plan with clear steps to birth your vision.

PHASE THREE

Alignment
& Action

 

 

In weeks 5 and 6, we'll work together to turn your vision into reality. We align your big idea with your calling, create your strategic implementation plan, and prepare you to bring your BABI into the world. You'll leave with a complete roadmap that prevents burnout while ensuring follow-through.

BONUS

Lifetime Access to The F-Word Course

 

Get instant access to The F-Word (Forgiveness) Course - the foundation every successful woman needs before birthing her big idea.

What you'll learn:

  • Why forgiveness unlocks your dreams
  • How to forgive yourself and move forward
  • How to let go of past hurts holding you back

This simple 3-part course clears the emotional blocks that keep your big idea stuck. Many clients say this course alone changed their life - and you get it free when you join BABI.

Bottom line: You can't birth something new while carrying old baggage. This course helps you let it go so your transformation happens faster.

WHEN YOU ARE FINALLY LIVING YOUR PURPOSE

Results matter!
Here's what to expect…

 

✓  Wake up excited about your big idea instead of paralyzed by fear - you'll have a clear plan and the confidence to follow it.

 

✓  Make decisions quickly without second-guessing yourself - no more overthinking or waiting for perfect.

 

✓  Feel lighter and free because you've released the guilt, shame, and past hurts that were weighing you down.

 

✓  Take action daily on your dream without feeling overwhelmed - you'll know exactly what to do next.

 

✓  Show up as your true self instead of wearing masks - leading with both strength and heart feels natural now.

Girl, do it. It's gonna be a game changer. You're not gonna see a difference in just the problem you're trying to conquer, but there'll be a total shift in everything that you do. Because of you, I've been changed for good.

 

JACKIE REED | EXECTUIVE PRODUCER 

I was just lost, going through the motions. But working with Tongela opened my mind up to different possibilities. I tapped back into my heartbeat and passion. I am clear. I have NEVER been clear. Thank you, Tongela - God used you.

 

MICHELLE FARRIS | EDUCATION EXECUTIVE

It's life-changing. I started a nonprofit, got my 501c3, and did my first prayer conference with over 100 people. My business completely transformed. If you do the work, you WILL be transformed. It's worth every penny.

 

KASSIE SIMMONS | NONPROFIT LEADER

YOUR TRANSFORMATION STARTS HERE

Special Opportunity for Driven Women Leaders

Regular Investment: $5,997

Promotional Price $3,997

 

Why this special pricing?

I believe every successful woman should be able to birth her big idea. I've seen too many brilliant women wait because of money worries. Your dream can't wait... and you shouldn't either. This lower price is my way of helping more women step into their calling right now.

Only a few spots remaining at this rate.

Once these final promotional spots are filled, the investment returns to regular pricing. Your future self is counting on the decision you make today.

— Six 60-minute private coaching sessions - One-on-one time with Tongela, customized to your unique big idea.

— Your personal BABI Roadmap - A step-by-step action plan to bring your dream to life without burnout.

— Selah Breathwork training - Powerful tools to release blocks and stay focused on your transformation.

— The F-Word Course (Bonus) - Lifetime access to the forgiveness foundation that unlocks rapid results.

 

APPLY NOW

Meet
Tongela

YOUR GUIDE FROM STUCK TO UNSTOPPABLE

 

I Know What It's Like to Have a Dream That Won't Let You Sleep

I get it. That big idea keeps waking you up at 3 AM. You know you're meant for more, but something inside keeps holding you back.

I've been there. High school dropout to multiple six-figure businesses - my journey taught me that your past doesn't determine your future. What determines it is whether you're willing to get real, get vulnerable, and do the deep work.

For 18 years, I've been helping successful women like you break free from the blocks keeping their dreams locked inside. My "Truth + Transparency = Transformation" method gets results fast - because when you finally face what's really stopping you, everything shifts.

I create the safe space where masks come off and miracles happen. My clients don't just dream anymore - they launch nonprofits, pivot careers, scale businesses, and step fully into their calling. Usually in weeks, not years.

I'm not here to sugarcoat or tell you what you want to hear. I'm here to help you birth that big idea that's been calling your name. If you're ready to stop playing small and start living in your purpose, I'm the coach who will walk with you every step of the way.

THE NEXT STEP IS SIMPLE

Schedule Your Rapid Results Roadmap Call

 …

This isn't just another "discovery call." This is where your transformation begins - whether you join BABI or not.

Here's what happens on your Rapid Results Roadmap Call:

In this powerful 30-minute session with Tongela, you'll walk away with clarity and direction you haven't had in months (maybe years). She'll help you identify the ONE thing blocking your big idea and create a clear path forward.

You'll discover:

  • What's really keeping you stuck - Tongela uses her proven assessment approach to pinpoint your specific "broken line" so you stop spinning your wheels
  • Your personalized roadmap - Get a clear action plan showing exactly how to go from stuck to unstoppable in weeks, not years
  • Your next best step - Leave knowing exactly what to do next, whether that's joining BABI or taking another path that's right for you

This call has value even if we never work together. You'll get Tongela's honest assessment of where you are and what needs to shift. No pressure. No hard sell. Just real transformation advice from someone who's helped hundreds of women birth their big ideas.

By the end of this call, the fog will lift. You'll finally see the path forward.

 

SCHEDULE YOUR CALL (APPLY HERE)

This is for you if….

 

— You're a successful woman with a big idea burning inside you - but fear, self-doubt, or past hurts keep stopping you from taking action

— You're done with surface-level solutions that don't work - and you're ready to do the deep, vulnerable work that creates real transformation in weeks, not years

— You're willing to invest in yourself at the level your dreams deserve - because you know your big idea is worth fighting for, and you're finally ready to birth it into reality

 

This isn’t for you if…

 

🆇 You want someone to do the work for you - This program requires you to show up fully, be honest, and take action on what we uncover together

🆇 You're looking for quick fixes or easy answers - Real transformation means facing what you've been avoiding, and that takes courage and commitment

🆇 You're not ready to invest in your future - This is premium transformation work for women who are serious about finally birthing their big idea

 

Alright, hit me with your questions!

Your Big Idea Has Waited Long Enough

Every day you wait is another day that dream stays locked inside you.
Another day of going through the motions instead of living your purpose.
Another day wondering "what if?"

The women who transform are the ones who make a decision.

Right now, you have two choices:

Choice 1: Close this page and keep doing what you've been doing. Hope things magically change. Wait for the "perfect time" that never comes. Watch your big idea die a slow death while life passes you by.

Choice 2: Book your FREE Rapid Results Roadmap Call and finally get the clarity you've been craving. Walk away with a clear path forward - whether you join BABI or not. Stop wondering and start knowing.

I'M READY, TONGELA! [APPLY HERE]