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HEY THERE! I'M TONGELA.

I help successful women leaders end self-sabotage
and lead with authentic power

... without years of therapy, starting over, losing yourself.

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YOU'RE GOING TO love THIS free 
guide to align your calendar with your calling in just one day.

Stop managing everyone else's priorities and start living from your God-given purpose.

"Only Your Calling Gets On Your Calendar" is the simple framework that helps you:

âś“ Identify what you're truly called to do (not just capable of doing)

âś“ Create boundaries that protect your purpose without guilt

âś“ Say no to good opportunities so you can say yes to God opportunities

âś“ Design a calendar that reflects your values, not just your obligations

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Tongela

TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH, LEADER, FRIEND

 I get it because I've lived it.

High school dropout turned six-figure entrepreneur. I know what it's like to succeed despite the odds - and then feel stuck anyway.

For 20+ years, I've helped women like you break through invisible barriers using my "Truth + Transparency = Transformation" framework. Endorsed by Les Brown and Lisa Osteen at Lakewood Church, but more importantly - it works.

I don't just coach your mind. I work with your spirit, soul, and body together.

You're in the right place if you're ready to stop playing small and start leading with authentic power.

 

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The Power of Forgiveness

Ready to stop being your own worst enemy?

80% of successful women can't forgive themselves. That's the broken line keeping you stuck.

This isn't just another course about forgiveness - it's your breakthrough from self-sabotage to self-love.

In three simple modules, you'll learn to:

âś“ Stop the inner critic that questions every decision

âś“ Release the guilt that keeps you playing small

âś“ Forgive yourself so you can finally move forward

Because you can't build your future on an unforgiving foundation.

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HOW I CAN HELP

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You've tried therapy. You've bought online programs. You've read the books.

So why are you still stuck?

Here's what I've learned from 20+ years of working with successful women: Most solutions only treat symptoms, not the root cause. They give you tools to manage your problems instead of eliminating them.

My approach is different.

I don't just work with your mind - I work with your spirit, soul, and body together. Using my "Truth + Transparency = Transformation" framework, I help you:

âś“ Find your exact broken line (not guess what might be wrong)
âś“ Get results in weeks, not years (because you need change now)
âś“ Break patterns at the root level (so they don't come back)
âś“ Create lasting transformation (not temporary motivation)

This isn't another program to consume. It's a breakthrough experience that changes you from the inside out.

Ready to stop managing your problems and start solving them?

 

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Ready to Stop Managing Everyone Else's Priorities?

Your calling is waiting, but your calendar is full of everything except what matters most.

Download my free guide and discover the simple framework that helps you align your time with your purpose in just 15 minutes a day.

"Only Your Calling Gets On Your Calendar" shows you how to:

âś“ Say no to good opportunities so you can say yes to God opportunities
âś“ Create boundaries that protect your purpose without guilt
âś“ Design a schedule that reflects your values, not just your obligations

Stop surviving and start thriving. Your breakthrough begins today.